What IS a soulmate? What exactly does that mean? Do you know? Are you not quite sure? Are you rolling your eyes?

The answer is actually quite simple. Nothing scary, I promise.

Webster’s defines soulmate as: a close friend who completely understands you; a person who is perfectly suited to another in temperament; a person who strongly resembles another in attitudes or beliefs.  

Sounds good, right?

My favorite? A person ideally suited to another as a close friend or romantic partner.

Ideally suited. Close friend. Romantic partner.

Nothing woo-woo about it. No fairytale fantasy. A person ideally suited to you.Like I said. Simple.

So here’s the question: Is that what you want? Do you want to find someone ideally suited to YOU…aka your soulmate love?

It’s possible, if you're willing to do a few simple things. I’ll explain how I know this to be true in just a minute. But first…

YES, YES, YES!!

You can find your ideal partner/soulmate love and here’s how to start…

Step 1: You must decide. Yep. You must make a decision.

To attract your soulmate and create your own version of happily-ever-after, you must DECIDE that you want forever love and that are ready to be in an intimate love relationship. Then, go ahead and declare your desire(s) to God/Goddess, angels, the Universe, Source; whomever you choose. Just put that energy out there! Say it out loud. I am READY!! Then, get into action. Which brings us to…

Step 2: Figure out what you want.  

Yes, I’m serious. Do you actually know exactly what it is you want?

What is yourhappily-ever-after? What kind of life do you want? What kind of man do you want? What kind of relationship do you want? And, most importantly, how do you want to feel? Write it all down. Add as much detail as possible.

Think about it. REALLY (really, really)think about it. Have FUN with this step. Dream big. You really can have it all.  A great career, wonderful family and friends, the man-of-your-dreams and fun, forever, soulmate love! Especially when you nail the next step.

Step 3: You must believein love… In soulmate love… In happily-forever-after love.

You must believe there is someone out there who is ideally suited to YOU. Actually, there is more than ONE someone…MANY more…but that’s for another blog.

The point is: You must BELIEVE.

Why?

We receive what we believe and we do not (and cannot) receive what we do not believe. What we focus on expands.

Meaning: If you keep attracting the wrong men and/or going on disappointing dates, you are spending more of your time thinking about what you DON’T want than what you DO want.

Knock that shit off.

It’s easier than you think. Consciously CHOOSE to think about what you DO want. (Which is easy once you KNOW what you want, right?)

Again, figure out what you want and focus your thoughts on what it will be like for you once you find it. Feel what it will feel like to be with him. Visualize things that you’ll do together.

Have FUN thinking about it. Get HAPPY about it. GET EXCITED!!!

BELIEVE in soulmate love. Know and believe in your heart and soul that there IS someone who is ideally suited to YOU and you WILL attract the man of your dreams and the love you’ve always wanted.

If you know that this is what you want but you’re still a little iffy, I want to give you multiple reasons why you CAN absolutely believe in soulmate love.

Here’s the Deal

I have proof soulmate love is a reality. Here’s why I believe in soulmate love and you can too!

Reason #1: I grew up in a family of soulmates.

My parents were married 48 years, I had two aunts and uncles married over 50 years and one aunt and uncle married 70 years. Yes, that’s right. 70 years!! And, they were HAPPY!

Reason #2:  I’m with mysoulmate.

Have been for over 30 years now. He is my best friend, partner and favorite person in the whole world. And, we are HAPPY!

Reason #3:  Everyone has many different soulmates.

I am not special. Don’t get me wrong. I don’t mean I’m not a special human being.

I am special, and unique, and one-of-a-kind, God’s perfect creation…just like YOU…and everyone else in the world.

We ALL can have multiple soulmates. Friends. Siblings. Even pets. And, yes, the most wonderful of all…soulmate LOVE.

So, there you have it. That’s why I believe in soulmate love and you can too!

Now go get a piece of paper and start figuring out what you want. And, don’t forget…

Your soulmate is out there looking for YOU!